How To Identify And Eliminate Walking Talking Cancer
Posted on October 12, 2008 | Filed Under
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Do you know how to identify cancer in your life? I\'m not talking about Cancer the disease I\'m talking about cancerous people in your inner circle. If you were surrounded by these people would you know how to identify them? Even better question is; do you know how to handle them so that you are not infected?
Let\'s begin by listing some of the characteristics of cancerous individuals:
1. They are always complaining, even when things are going well in their life they find ways to complain about it not being better.
2. They are great facilitators. If you are trying to give up drinking they will try to talk you into drinking. If you are dieting they are telling you why it is not important.
3. Cancerous people will do everything they can to point out your flaws in order to try to make themselves feel better. Their philosophy is, if they can burn out your candle it makes theirs shine brighter.
4. They will bring you down, rain on your parade, turn your smile upside down. Maybe not on purpose, but it is their talent. It almost bothers these people to see you happy.
5. They are constantly depressed. They create a world were everything they do backfires and they are mad at everyone for it.
6. As long as these cancerous people are breathing they will not accept that anything is their fault. It\'s always \"the system\" or some one else who is responsible for the actions they take. They refuse to take responsibility for their life.
7.They will use every thing they know about you against you. Everything.
Now that we can identify them, how many people in your circle of friends fit the description? How many people in your home fit the description? Hopefully none or very few but if you do have any I am now going to give you my very best tips for dealing with cancerous people in your life.
1. Be prepared to deal with massive negativity, one of the best ways to do that is to feed your brain as much positive information as possible. Pick up a book on positive thinking and read it every opportunity you get, you will need all the re-enforcement you can get when dealing with walking, talking cancer.
2. You can not play the nice guy/gal role all the time. Sometimes you have to let a cancerous person know that he or she is making you uncomfortable. See, not all cancerous people are bad people, 90% are good people with bad habits. If you let them know that something they are doing bothers you most of the time you will never have to repeat yourself.
3. Choose to associate with positive people. When you are around great positive people they act as the medicine your mind needs.
4. Try to help them. Sometimes they need to hear that they are affecting people around them the way cancer affects the body.
5. If all else fails choose to separate your self from them. Don\'t hang around and let negative people eat away at your future. You only get one life learn how to say goodbye to everyone and anything that is not good for you.
Eduardo M Rodriguez is a leading national business trainer. His primary areas of focus are internet business and marketing. Eduardo is a Web marketing expert and a master salesperson who has led every team he has ever been a part of. Eduardo now brings that same intensity to helping others prosper.
Ed can be reached using the following methods.
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